We are not here to fix or judge others.
We are here to be a walking example
that INSPIRES OTHERS
to want to do things in a new way.
So walk the new way
And if others don’t want to follow,
Let them go.
We are not here to fix everyone.
We are here to keep moving
And keep working
And keep healing
Until we find the people
Who finally feel like home.
They are the ones who deserve us.
Make the space
Through believing they are working just as hard
To find you.
wednesday vibes (27 march) — We are here to inspire others to change.
So yesterday brought a situation where we were being asked to be the example of something from the OPPOSITE of what we walked. It is about coming out of the other side of a storm and seeing from a new perspective. But with this one, as I have said constantly the past few weeks, that where we are emptied, diminished, and left lacking is WHERE we become authorities in this lifetime. It’s where we surpass others who did not experience the same struggles.
This is why I have said you can’t blame who you are, where you came from, and what life has presented because it’s telling this ultimate story with aspects that you are here to learn from, rise above, and share some exalted crossing of a bridge perspective that helps you see how the feeling beneath your views is what needs the attention.
WHY do you feel so strongly around certain people with certain traits? There is a reason and it’s not something as superficial as you think. Because I was hated by my mother, I grew up to hate and mistrust women. And we all know they can play SO dirty. A woman feeling scorned who has a strong ego that has lots of landmine needs still needing to be healed can do BIG DAMAGE in working to destroy whoever “crossed” them. That is the way women have been because the patriarchy manipulated that reaction out of them.
But the damage we do to other women is the damage we experience in our own lives. It’s a new gravity thing about Earth and happiness is linked 100% to your lack of wanting to break down and destroy other women. Mama Earth hooked up this new flow and to benefit and prosper we must love women and stop being envious and competitive with them. AND not like personally allow into your space all women and just automatically accept and trust them – your job is not to fix those who aren’t ready to be healed or to open yourself to all women and try to change who you are, in order to meet all their landmine needs. BUT you have to love the feminine inside of yourself and to value the aspect of the matriarchy, which was completely depleted and destroyed through the part of the journey the patriarchy has led.
This new way we are creating doesn’t even have a lot of words to describe the journey because it is so new. It’s a new feeling, where we wake up to how cruel we have been because we never dealt with how cruelly we were treated. When the cycle to healing and understanding hasn’t been completed, we stay in the feelings of I AM HURT SO YOU SHOULD HURT TOO.
These people will continue to hurt you because they have not healed what hurt them in the first place. Just like how my somatic trauma therapist, Ruby Jo Walker, is a leader in the field of trauma healing — and she takes NO SHIT. I heard from some bodyworkers in Santa Fe that she actually primarily only works with Native American women in helping them to also take no shit to then teach other women. So that she no longer takes clients and only teaches to other healers, but that I get in as what is maybe her last client is pretty spectacular for US – because I am getting an authority on TRAUMA HEALING to work on me, which means we all are being worked on because I will share the journey every step of the way.
But Ruby Jo will not let you be fooled and stay a victim in making so much room for everyone else to be comfortable while sacrificing the truth that you DESERVE to be handled and dealt with in a certain way, we are NOT here to keep toxic things in our system as if it is on us to fix them.
We are not here to fix others, we are here to be a walking example that INSPIRES OTHERS. And if others want to fight your inspiration, walk away. It is your right to do so. You don’t have to think it’s on you to fix what you believe is wrong in others or to take their belittling and try to transmute it into love and light. BUT it IS wrong for you to believe you are an authority on what is wrong with others, actually. We have NO IDEA what is really going on in others. So, you take care of you and let them be inspired by how gracefully you bring the wisdom in ways that are not beating others into submission because of the ONE WAY you choose to intellectually believe in— as if there could only be one way.
Sending you heap loads of blessings for good vibes shifting you to the other side!
moon phase of the day
BRING IT FORWARD. Once we reach the bright light of the full moon IT IS ON. Now we are to put things out there, show them what we got and put your steps towards new aspects of how you want your life to be. Emulate the full moon and shine your things brightly.
moon of the day
Feeling happy. Feeling hopeful. Thinking about dreams. Wanting to grow.
Making a plan. Thinking about your career. Feeling determined. Feeling a bit down.
2: Needing to come together and bridge two perspectives. Work to create an understanding or peace from what is going on around you.
4: This is a day that a lesson will be learned! This number tends to bring tests and situations that don’t feel all that wonderful. You are learning something here.
6: You are seeing into your past and also into your future. You are moving forward with a new STRENGTH FROM what you have experienced before.